As I was looking through all of these pictures I thought of all the beautiful everyday memories that are being created with my family. In the pictures you don't see the stress of bills coming up, or the rushed mornings when I'm trying to get lunches, sweaters, my make-up, water bottles, my binders and purse and 3 children out the door. I do see three smiling (mostly smiling) children, a father, mother, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles who are enjoying each other and already looking forward to the next thing we get to do together.
Honestly, motherhood is no small task, nor for the faint of heart. But when I was talking to Nati today and her little baby girl was doing one sassy adorable thing after another I realized how individual and absolutely beautiful every child is, and how much I actually enjoy being a mother! Being a full-time mother has recently been on the attack in politics and in the media in general. As I read comments or articles I really thought about my roll as mother. Why do we do it? Why is it so rewarding? Why do we not only have one child, but two or three even!? How do you explain to someone that there really are more pros than cons, or why having a pet to avoid the hassles of raising children will never be as rewarding. Changing a diaper will never be pleasant, but seeing your baby's happy face with a clean diaper on is ALWAYS motivating enough to change another 1000 or 2000 diapers more. Waking up at 2, 4, and 6 am several times a week and putting a smile on your face the next morning is nearly impossible, but when I feel their little hands wrapped around my neck saying, "Mom today is going to be a fun day!" I just get to smile in return and hope tonight will go a lot smoother.
The days seem long sometimes, and nights are quite short...but being a mother is definitely "the best job." Watch the video at the end of the post. I cry every time I watch it, because I'm reminded that the little things I do every day really do matter.
I was reading through some quotes and couldn't help but laugh at these. Lets be real, motherhood isn't always rainbows and butterflies...and I think thats why it's just perfect!
"My theory on housework is, if the item doesn't multiply, smell, catch fire, or block the refrigerator door, let it be. No one else cares. Why should you? " ~Erma Bombeck
"I know how to do anything - I'm a Mom." ~Roseanne Barr
"I'd like to be the ideal mother, but I'm too busy raising my kids." ~Unknown
"There never was a child so lovely but his mother was glad to get him asleep." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
"The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world." -- William Ross Wallace
"I'm a mother with two small children, so I don't take as much crap as I used to." — Pamela Anderson
Here's some pics of what we did these past two weeks.
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Wow! It's touching how that video means you catch your breathe. I guess we all kinda hope that our kids will show the world how amazing we've always known they are. To stand with pride and confidence knowing they have reached their dreams. And what a cherry on top to turn and look to the woman who made it possible. Thanks for sharing mel. We need these reminders more often.
ReplyDeleteSuper Like this inspirational post!! Buena reflexion Mel, thanks for sharing!
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